"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When I was afc, the world seemded afc but now...

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Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me. By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too. But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world. But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.

Has this happened to anybody else? What % of the population is afc or DJ? Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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djtdot said:
Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me.
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Oh really?

djtdot said:
By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too.
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Wow.

djtdot said:
But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world.
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Damn.

djtdot said:
But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.
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Okay.

djtdot said:
Has this happened to anybody else?
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No.

djtdot said:
What % of the population is afc or DJ?
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51.61112%

djtdot said:
Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
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Yeah just a little.
 
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