"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When I was afc, the world seemded afc but now...

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Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me. By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too. But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world. But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.

Has this happened to anybody else? What % of the population is afc or DJ? Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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me trate ors rif?
 

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djtdot said:
Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me.
Oh really?

djtdot said:
By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too.
Wow.

djtdot said:
But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world.
Damn.

djtdot said:
But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.
Okay.

djtdot said:
Has this happened to anybody else?
No.

djtdot said:
What % of the population is afc or DJ?
51.61112%

djtdot said:
Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
Yeah just a little.
 
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