"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When I was afc, the world seemded afc but now...

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Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me. By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too. But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world. But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.

Has this happened to anybody else? What % of the population is afc or DJ? Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djtdot said:
Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me.
Oh really?

djtdot said:
By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too.
Wow.

djtdot said:
But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world.
Damn.

djtdot said:
But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.
Okay.

djtdot said:
Has this happened to anybody else?
No.

djtdot said:
What % of the population is afc or DJ?
51.61112%

djtdot said:
Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
Yeah just a little.
 
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