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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When girl doesn't call/text back BUT...

silverwex

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Right so you know a girl you like but she never texts/calls/emails you but when you call/text/email her she ALWAYS replies.

What do you make of these situations?

Also, what if the girl says: 'I NEVER text/call/email guys first, they have to do it'.

PS - I'm not in this situation now, it has happened in the past though and im juts bored and curious as to what you fellow DJs would do in this situation.

thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cactus3178

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IMO, if she always calls/txts/emails BACK, but won't initiate it, she doesn't have a high enough IL to pursue.

Reciprocity is key or your wasting your time.
 

Viking25

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I myself dont know what to make out of it.
But here's what happened to 2 HB8's who never ever initiated anything with me.
HB8with dsl....she would hang out online on YIM and would never IM me....I am not even talking about texting/calling me...the ho never even IMed me first. So I gave up on her...figured she has no interst in me. Then one day I IMed her just for kicks and she agreed to meet me at the bar....kissed closed her that nite and fukked her next day!..
HB8conservative....she even told me she never calls guys or initiates anytging first,she said she had no reason to persue guys as they persue her! So I gave up on her...fukk that I said!...few months later I see her at the bar...get her number again and start calling her everyday...I went total AFC on this one....but guess who fukked her all nite after our first date?...Yeah..it was me!...maybe because other guys gave up on this b1tch too early?
As I said..I dont know what to make out of this...I broke all the rules of DJ with these two..and I got some nice pvssy fast!...
 

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For the guys that say girls never initiate any dates/calls.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she returns your calls in a timely matter or picks up when you call her even though she never calls you.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she says yes to most of your dates, but never initiates any dates.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

Girls especially shy ones want you to do all the pursuing. There is nothing WRONG about this AS LONG as she says YES to most of your dates. Even HB7s-9s usually never initiate any call. The less attractive girls tend to do the pursuing.. so if you want an equal relationship, go for less attractive girls.

After a couple months, of pursuing.. If you want her to call you cause you want her to reassure your ego that you want a relationship with her. LET HER KNOW.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dj_Dork, bump.
 
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