Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When girl doesn't call/text back BUT...

silverwex

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Right so you know a girl you like but she never texts/calls/emails you but when you call/text/email her she ALWAYS replies.

What do you make of these situations?

Also, what if the girl says: 'I NEVER text/call/email guys first, they have to do it'.

PS - I'm not in this situation now, it has happened in the past though and im juts bored and curious as to what you fellow DJs would do in this situation.

thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cactus3178

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IMO, if she always calls/txts/emails BACK, but won't initiate it, she doesn't have a high enough IL to pursue.

Reciprocity is key or your wasting your time.
 

Viking25

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I myself dont know what to make out of it.
But here's what happened to 2 HB8's who never ever initiated anything with me.
HB8with dsl....she would hang out online on YIM and would never IM me....I am not even talking about texting/calling me...the ho never even IMed me first. So I gave up on her...figured she has no interst in me. Then one day I IMed her just for kicks and she agreed to meet me at the bar....kissed closed her that nite and fukked her next day!..
HB8conservative....she even told me she never calls guys or initiates anytging first,she said she had no reason to persue guys as they persue her! So I gave up on her...fukk that I said!...few months later I see her at the bar...get her number again and start calling her everyday...I went total AFC on this one....but guess who fukked her all nite after our first date?...Yeah..it was me!...maybe because other guys gave up on this b1tch too early?
As I said..I dont know what to make out of this...I broke all the rules of DJ with these two..and I got some nice pvssy fast!...
 

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For the guys that say girls never initiate any dates/calls.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she returns your calls in a timely matter or picks up when you call her even though she never calls you.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she says yes to most of your dates, but never initiates any dates.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

Girls especially shy ones want you to do all the pursuing. There is nothing WRONG about this AS LONG as she says YES to most of your dates. Even HB7s-9s usually never initiate any call. The less attractive girls tend to do the pursuing.. so if you want an equal relationship, go for less attractive girls.

After a couple months, of pursuing.. If you want her to call you cause you want her to reassure your ego that you want a relationship with her. LET HER KNOW.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dj_Dork, bump.
 
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