"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When girl doesn't call/text back BUT...

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silverwex

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Right so you know a girl you like but she never texts/calls/emails you but when you call/text/email her she ALWAYS replies.

What do you make of these situations?

Also, what if the girl says: 'I NEVER text/call/email guys first, they have to do it'.

PS - I'm not in this situation now, it has happened in the past though and im juts bored and curious as to what you fellow DJs would do in this situation.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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IMO, if she always calls/txts/emails BACK, but won't initiate it, she doesn't have a high enough IL to pursue.

Reciprocity is key or your wasting your time.
 
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I myself dont know what to make out of it.
But here's what happened to 2 HB8's who never ever initiated anything with me.
HB8with dsl....she would hang out online on YIM and would never IM me....I am not even talking about texting/calling me...the ho never even IMed me first. So I gave up on her...figured she has no interst in me. Then one day I IMed her just for kicks and she agreed to meet me at the bar....kissed closed her that nite and fukked her next day!..
HB8conservative....she even told me she never calls guys or initiates anytging first,she said she had no reason to persue guys as they persue her! So I gave up on her...fukk that I said!...few months later I see her at the bar...get her number again and start calling her everyday...I went total AFC on this one....but guess who fukked her all nite after our first date?...Yeah..it was me!...maybe because other guys gave up on this b1tch too early?
As I said..I dont know what to make out of this...I broke all the rules of DJ with these two..and I got some nice pvssy fast!...
 
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For the guys that say girls never initiate any dates/calls.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she returns your calls in a timely matter or picks up when you call her even though she never calls you.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

If she says yes to most of your dates, but never initiates any dates.

SHE WANTS YOU TO LEAD HER.

Girls especially shy ones want you to do all the pursuing. There is nothing WRONG about this AS LONG as she says YES to most of your dates. Even HB7s-9s usually never initiate any call. The less attractive girls tend to do the pursuing.. so if you want an equal relationship, go for less attractive girls.

After a couple months, of pursuing.. If you want her to call you cause you want her to reassure your ego that you want a relationship with her. LET HER KNOW.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dj_Dork, bump.
 
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