Ringleader41
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Its been about 3.5 weeks really. Ive never had a gf or gotten this far with a girl before lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When does the girl usually ask wat are we??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
j0504s
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it really depends and varys...in my expreince it has been btwn having sex with her 3-6 times....so times sooner sometimes never....but that is the avgRingleader41 said:
SgtSplacker
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The sex thing is key here. After you bang some girls the first time, it's like a switch. They start trying to figure out what exactly they are in your life. If you bang a girl and she's not trying to make things official you can pretty much assume she's not very interested in a relationship or has something else going on.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Ringleader41
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Wat if I cant spin plates at my current location.SgtSplacker said:
SgtSplacker
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It's not about reality, it's about frame of mind.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
