Ringleader41
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Its been about 3.5 weeks really. Ive never had a gf or gotten this far with a girl before lol
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When does the girl usually ask wat are we??
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
j0504s
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it really depends and varys...in my expreince it has been btwn having sex with her 3-6 times....so times sooner sometimes never....but that is the avgRingleader41 said:
SgtSplacker
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The sex thing is key here. After you bang some girls the first time, it's like a switch. They start trying to figure out what exactly they are in your life. If you bang a girl and she's not trying to make things official you can pretty much assume she's not very interested in a relationship or has something else going on.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Ringleader41
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Wat if I cant spin plates at my current location.SgtSplacker said:
SgtSplacker
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It's not about reality, it's about frame of mind.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
