Ringleader41
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Its been about 3.5 weeks really. Ive never had a gf or gotten this far with a girl before lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When does the girl usually ask wat are we??
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
j0504s
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it really depends and varys...in my expreince it has been btwn having sex with her 3-6 times....so times sooner sometimes never....but that is the avgRingleader41 said:
SgtSplacker
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The sex thing is key here. After you bang some girls the first time, it's like a switch. They start trying to figure out what exactly they are in your life. If you bang a girl and she's not trying to make things official you can pretty much assume she's not very interested in a relationship or has something else going on.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Ringleader41
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Wat if I cant spin plates at my current location.SgtSplacker said:
SgtSplacker
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It's not about reality, it's about frame of mind.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
