Ringleader41
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Its been about 3.5 weeks really. Ive never had a gf or gotten this far with a girl before lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When does the girl usually ask wat are we??
- Thread starter Ringleader41
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
j0504s
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it really depends and varys...in my expreince it has been btwn having sex with her 3-6 times....so times sooner sometimes never....but that is the avgRingleader41 said:
SgtSplacker
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The sex thing is key here. After you bang some girls the first time, it's like a switch. They start trying to figure out what exactly they are in your life. If you bang a girl and she's not trying to make things official you can pretty much assume she's not very interested in a relationship or has something else going on.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Generally a man should not preoccupy himself with these things, she must be the first one to try and formalize things for you to have the best chances at a decent relationship. Your objective is to keep your options as open as possible until one you really like starts trying to make things official.
Ringleader41
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Wat if I cant spin plates at my current location.SgtSplacker said:
SgtSplacker
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It's not about reality, it's about frame of mind.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
Women are constantly trying to gauge your value. They use certain factors to kinda see if you are a valuable man.
How does he spend his time?
Does he have too much free time?
Does he want to settle down?
Does he have girl-friends?
All of these things paint a picture of the man that you are.
Don't be the desperate guy looking to latch onto any female that might let you touch her nether region. Be the guy with options that just might settle down with a girl thats cool enough.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
