BongDuy
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Like if you go on dates, that's still a bit open. but when is it official that you two are a couple? When she says "I love you" or something? after the seventh kiss or some ridiculous rule?
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when do you consider her your gf
- Thread starter BongDuy
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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LinkinParkROX
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Yep. You assume she's your girl from the first date on. This helps your whole mindset as well. Opening you up to Kino easily. Treat her like she's your girlfriend, because she is unless she says otherwise. Know that if she specifically, clearly tells you to back off and that she's not your girlfriend and she's not interested, the opposite is true - she is your girlfriend, and she's interested in you. Simple. 
Good luck, champ!
Good luck, champ! jeffthechef
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ypu..both guys above me are right
treat the first outing as if she was your gf...kino/talk as though she's yours
you're "official" when she tells you that you guys are
usually after the first kiss...she'll wonder what your status is..and finally ask if you guys are official...then you can decide
treat the first outing as if she was your gf...kino/talk as though she's yours
you're "official" when she tells you that you guys are
usually after the first kiss...she'll wonder what your status is..and finally ask if you guys are official...then you can decide
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When it's Facebook official! haha just kidding
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