"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When Do I CAll Her?

CR103030

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Calling on all DJ's,

Met this girl while we were both on vacation a week ago. We happen to live in the same area. She will not be back in town for another 2 weeks.

Got her number after a brief C+F and very good rapport at the club. Should I call her in a couple a days, then call back in a week to set up a date? or should I just wait it out and call her in a couple of weeks?

Thanks guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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magickarl

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You want the real answer?

Whenever you damn well feel like it.

Instead of pretending to call at a time when it is "convenient" for you, how about you go on, live your life, get other numbers, and when you get bored in a week or so, give her a call and see whats up.

If she gave you her number, shes interested on some level.
 

CR103030

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I just thought waiting for 3 weeks is a little too long, and I usually don't call unless it's for setting up dates.

It's just weird to call for "just to talk".
 

AAAgent

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if u wait till after break it might be too long, just get in a quick coffee date or anything small. a quick lunch or tell her your new around here and ask her to show u around. say thanks and don't talk to her until a week after she gets back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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