"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When Do I CAll Her?

CR103030

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Calling on all DJ's,

Met this girl while we were both on vacation a week ago. We happen to live in the same area. She will not be back in town for another 2 weeks.

Got her number after a brief C+F and very good rapport at the club. Should I call her in a couple a days, then call back in a week to set up a date? or should I just wait it out and call her in a couple of weeks?

Thanks guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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magickarl

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You want the real answer?

Whenever you damn well feel like it.

Instead of pretending to call at a time when it is "convenient" for you, how about you go on, live your life, get other numbers, and when you get bored in a week or so, give her a call and see whats up.

If she gave you her number, shes interested on some level.
 

CR103030

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I just thought waiting for 3 weeks is a little too long, and I usually don't call unless it's for setting up dates.

It's just weird to call for "just to talk".
 

AAAgent

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if u wait till after break it might be too long, just get in a quick coffee date or anything small. a quick lunch or tell her your new around here and ask her to show u around. say thanks and don't talk to her until a week after she gets back.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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