"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When Do I CAll Her?

CR103030

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Calling on all DJ's,

Met this girl while we were both on vacation a week ago. We happen to live in the same area. She will not be back in town for another 2 weeks.

Got her number after a brief C+F and very good rapport at the club. Should I call her in a couple a days, then call back in a week to set up a date? or should I just wait it out and call her in a couple of weeks?

Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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magickarl

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You want the real answer?

Whenever you damn well feel like it.

Instead of pretending to call at a time when it is "convenient" for you, how about you go on, live your life, get other numbers, and when you get bored in a week or so, give her a call and see whats up.

If she gave you her number, shes interested on some level.
 

CR103030

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I just thought waiting for 3 weeks is a little too long, and I usually don't call unless it's for setting up dates.

It's just weird to call for "just to talk".
 

AAAgent

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if u wait till after break it might be too long, just get in a quick coffee date or anything small. a quick lunch or tell her your new around here and ask her to show u around. say thanks and don't talk to her until a week after she gets back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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