"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When attraction just won't develop

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When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can be a million different reasons. You could do everything by the book and still not get anywhere with the girl your interested in. Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
 
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RedZone said:
Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
Not in my case. I have been getting that non-sexual vibe for months now. From different women.
 

RedZone

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Okay lets say you are interested in a girl. How do you go about it?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?

What are you doing wrong? Most likely committing sexual assault.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well, maybe you're just a worthless flake? I mean, it is very possible that such a guy would post here, you know.
 

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It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
 

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Purefilth said:
It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
POV videos brah
 

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Wow, OP I'm surprised you're still here. Your troll post get spotted each time. I think you need to rejoin under another name and start all over, for the nth time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
Stop treating it like a "game".
We call it "game", but that's the idiot's way of just scoring some poon.

I'd say that you're probably making it about the end result instead of just having fun with it. See what the girl likes. Try to learn about her and still be a fun person.

Don't take it so seriously, mate. Beautiful girls can tell when you're just trying to score some poon. They're used to it. Guys do that all the time with them. They will either succumb to someone incredibly good at hiding the fact that they're gaming them, or an honest guy with the attitude of a man.

Of course, this is all said assuming you're trying to find a chick to date rather than just a chick to bang and drop. If you want to bang and drop, go for the 6's or 7's. They're much more often in the bed because they take every opportunity they can since they know their small amount of beauty won't last.

I'm just saying, girls aren't stupid. They're still people. They can tell between you just trying to game them and you actually trying to meet them and be a man about it.
 
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Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.

You remind me of every single guy just starting out in pickup...but with a much worse attitude. No wonder girls don't like you...I think you should donkey punch yourself in the nuts...How do you know what this guy wants???
.. Plus it's because you forgot to spin them and do the cube.... They will only give you attraction if you spin them and do the cube and back turn when she is disobedient.
 
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