"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When attraction just won't develop

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When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can be a million different reasons. You could do everything by the book and still not get anywhere with the girl your interested in. Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
 
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RedZone said:
Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
Not in my case. I have been getting that non-sexual vibe for months now. From different women.
 

RedZone

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Okay lets say you are interested in a girl. How do you go about it?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?

What are you doing wrong? Most likely committing sexual assault.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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well, maybe you're just a worthless flake? I mean, it is very possible that such a guy would post here, you know.
 

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It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
 

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Purefilth said:
It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
POV videos brah
 

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Wow, OP I'm surprised you're still here. Your troll post get spotted each time. I think you need to rejoin under another name and start all over, for the nth time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
Stop treating it like a "game".
We call it "game", but that's the idiot's way of just scoring some poon.

I'd say that you're probably making it about the end result instead of just having fun with it. See what the girl likes. Try to learn about her and still be a fun person.

Don't take it so seriously, mate. Beautiful girls can tell when you're just trying to score some poon. They're used to it. Guys do that all the time with them. They will either succumb to someone incredibly good at hiding the fact that they're gaming them, or an honest guy with the attitude of a man.

Of course, this is all said assuming you're trying to find a chick to date rather than just a chick to bang and drop. If you want to bang and drop, go for the 6's or 7's. They're much more often in the bed because they take every opportunity they can since they know their small amount of beauty won't last.

I'm just saying, girls aren't stupid. They're still people. They can tell between you just trying to game them and you actually trying to meet them and be a man about it.
 
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Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.

You remind me of every single guy just starting out in pickup...but with a much worse attitude. No wonder girls don't like you...I think you should donkey punch yourself in the nuts...How do you know what this guy wants???
.. Plus it's because you forgot to spin them and do the cube.... They will only give you attraction if you spin them and do the cube and back turn when she is disobedient.
 
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