"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When attraction just won't develop

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When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can be a million different reasons. You could do everything by the book and still not get anywhere with the girl your interested in. Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
 
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RedZone said:
Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
Not in my case. I have been getting that non-sexual vibe for months now. From different women.
 

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Okay lets say you are interested in a girl. How do you go about it?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?

What are you doing wrong? Most likely committing sexual assault.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well, maybe you're just a worthless flake? I mean, it is very possible that such a guy would post here, you know.
 

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It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
 

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Purefilth said:
It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
POV videos brah
 

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Wow, OP I'm surprised you're still here. Your troll post get spotted each time. I think you need to rejoin under another name and start all over, for the nth time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
Stop treating it like a "game".
We call it "game", but that's the idiot's way of just scoring some poon.

I'd say that you're probably making it about the end result instead of just having fun with it. See what the girl likes. Try to learn about her and still be a fun person.

Don't take it so seriously, mate. Beautiful girls can tell when you're just trying to score some poon. They're used to it. Guys do that all the time with them. They will either succumb to someone incredibly good at hiding the fact that they're gaming them, or an honest guy with the attitude of a man.

Of course, this is all said assuming you're trying to find a chick to date rather than just a chick to bang and drop. If you want to bang and drop, go for the 6's or 7's. They're much more often in the bed because they take every opportunity they can since they know their small amount of beauty won't last.

I'm just saying, girls aren't stupid. They're still people. They can tell between you just trying to game them and you actually trying to meet them and be a man about it.
 
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Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.

You remind me of every single guy just starting out in pickup...but with a much worse attitude. No wonder girls don't like you...I think you should donkey punch yourself in the nuts...How do you know what this guy wants???
.. Plus it's because you forgot to spin them and do the cube.... They will only give you attraction if you spin them and do the cube and back turn when she is disobedient.
 
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