"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When attraction just won't develop

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When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can be a million different reasons. You could do everything by the book and still not get anywhere with the girl your interested in. Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
 
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RedZone said:
Sometimes it's best to just move on to another target.
Not in my case. I have been getting that non-sexual vibe for months now. From different women.
 

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Okay lets say you are interested in a girl. How do you go about it?
 

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?

What are you doing wrong? Most likely committing sexual assault.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well, maybe you're just a worthless flake? I mean, it is very possible that such a guy would post here, you know.
 

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It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
 

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Purefilth said:
It's ok Phillip, the girls on pornhub don't even look at me either and I neg them and praise them for hours! They don't even look if I just say hello and smile :(
POV videos brah
 

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Wow, OP I'm surprised you're still here. Your troll post get spotted each time. I think you need to rejoin under another name and start all over, for the nth time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
When you experience no attraction from her even though you neg her, talk about what she feels when she does x or y, look at her sensually and touch her, what are you likely doing wrong?
Stop treating it like a "game".
We call it "game", but that's the idiot's way of just scoring some poon.

I'd say that you're probably making it about the end result instead of just having fun with it. See what the girl likes. Try to learn about her and still be a fun person.

Don't take it so seriously, mate. Beautiful girls can tell when you're just trying to score some poon. They're used to it. Guys do that all the time with them. They will either succumb to someone incredibly good at hiding the fact that they're gaming them, or an honest guy with the attitude of a man.

Of course, this is all said assuming you're trying to find a chick to date rather than just a chick to bang and drop. If you want to bang and drop, go for the 6's or 7's. They're much more often in the bed because they take every opportunity they can since they know their small amount of beauty won't last.

I'm just saying, girls aren't stupid. They're still people. They can tell between you just trying to game them and you actually trying to meet them and be a man about it.
 
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Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
Sneevox: Girls are stupid more often than not. But I am talking science here. They are not stupid when it comes to social interactions.

Your text assumes that women don't want to have sex. This assumes that a man wanting to have sex with a woman is retarded. Which is wrong on so many levels but what's even worse is that you are male: you are cutting your own genitals off.

If you apologize for wanting to fvck this very girl, you are on the wrong path.

You remind me of every single guy just starting out in pickup...but with a much worse attitude. No wonder girls don't like you...I think you should donkey punch yourself in the nuts...How do you know what this guy wants???
.. Plus it's because you forgot to spin them and do the cube.... They will only give you attraction if you spin them and do the cube and back turn when she is disobedient.
 
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