"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When are we meeting up?

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PooMan

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This gal and i chat all the time online and on the phone, and we flirt all the time! Were really into each other, weve met once but nothing could happen because her friends were with her and altho weve talked about meeting up again alone a lil bit, theres nothing really happening atm

thing is im getting tired of all the flirting and lack of meeting up and im thinking about sending her a text saying "look, im getting bored of just flirting, when are we meeting up alone?"

she met some guy at a party last night too so her interest level has dropped a lil bit so is this a good move?

should i do it?

cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Why do you feel the need to post under two seperate user names?

Are you that bored?
 
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jakeyboy

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don't chat to her online or on the phone all the time. this gives you less topics to talk about when you do meet up with her. it also drags her IL down cos there's a high possibility of her getting bored talking to you so often.

call her up to make a date. after you do, find some excuse and politely hang up. let the girl have a chance to miss you man. in her head now... you're probably "that guy who's always calling me."

prove her wrong mate.

stop calling or talking to her online. show her you have a life outside of the chatroom.
 
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