"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When are we meeting up?

PooMan

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This gal and i chat all the time online and on the phone, and we flirt all the time! Were really into each other, weve met once but nothing could happen because her friends were with her and altho weve talked about meeting up again alone a lil bit, theres nothing really happening atm

thing is im getting tired of all the flirting and lack of meeting up and im thinking about sending her a text saying "look, im getting bored of just flirting, when are we meeting up alone?"

she met some guy at a party last night too so her interest level has dropped a lil bit so is this a good move?

should i do it?

cheers
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Why do you feel the need to post under two seperate user names?

Are you that bored?
 

jakeyboy

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don't chat to her online or on the phone all the time. this gives you less topics to talk about when you do meet up with her. it also drags her IL down cos there's a high possibility of her getting bored talking to you so often.

call her up to make a date. after you do, find some excuse and politely hang up. let the girl have a chance to miss you man. in her head now... you're probably "that guy who's always calling me."

prove her wrong mate.

stop calling or talking to her online. show her you have a life outside of the chatroom.
 
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