Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When are we meeting up?

PooMan

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This gal and i chat all the time online and on the phone, and we flirt all the time! Were really into each other, weve met once but nothing could happen because her friends were with her and altho weve talked about meeting up again alone a lil bit, theres nothing really happening atm

thing is im getting tired of all the flirting and lack of meeting up and im thinking about sending her a text saying "look, im getting bored of just flirting, when are we meeting up alone?"

she met some guy at a party last night too so her interest level has dropped a lil bit so is this a good move?

should i do it?

cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Why do you feel the need to post under two seperate user names?

Are you that bored?
 

jakeyboy

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don't chat to her online or on the phone all the time. this gives you less topics to talk about when you do meet up with her. it also drags her IL down cos there's a high possibility of her getting bored talking to you so often.

call her up to make a date. after you do, find some excuse and politely hang up. let the girl have a chance to miss you man. in her head now... you're probably "that guy who's always calling me."

prove her wrong mate.

stop calling or talking to her online. show her you have a life outside of the chatroom.
 
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