"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When are we meeting up?

PooMan

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This gal and i chat all the time online and on the phone, and we flirt all the time! Were really into each other, weve met once but nothing could happen because her friends were with her and altho weve talked about meeting up again alone a lil bit, theres nothing really happening atm

thing is im getting tired of all the flirting and lack of meeting up and im thinking about sending her a text saying "look, im getting bored of just flirting, when are we meeting up alone?"

she met some guy at a party last night too so her interest level has dropped a lil bit so is this a good move?

should i do it?

cheers
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Why do you feel the need to post under two seperate user names?

Are you that bored?
 

jakeyboy

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don't chat to her online or on the phone all the time. this gives you less topics to talk about when you do meet up with her. it also drags her IL down cos there's a high possibility of her getting bored talking to you so often.

call her up to make a date. after you do, find some excuse and politely hang up. let the girl have a chance to miss you man. in her head now... you're probably "that guy who's always calling me."

prove her wrong mate.

stop calling or talking to her online. show her you have a life outside of the chatroom.
 
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