PlatoPacks23
Senior Don Juan
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not even a response so far lol, obvs low on priorities moving on
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This situation is the Goal but seldom ever really attained by 98% of college aged men. Don't confuse someone's highlight reel with your everyday life....This is why you need plates….. You need options to have the confidence to keep hitting up more girls. Who cares about this one if I got another one ready to run to my room at my command?
On the other hand, no options leads to overthinking about the only potential option. Cue neediness and anxiety. Cue OP making tens of posts on simply asking out a girl.
Any update?didn't even write backmy guess is she writes some bs excuse or says some group thing tomorrow
and if she doesn't even write back? lol guess class will be awkward then, I don't get it
well at least I know
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She flaked and said she was tired (predictable) and asked to reschedule. Gave him the same advice to be unphased and not be butthurtAny update?
It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like you were unphased by it and like it never happened.
yah im just more focused on talking w other girls now, I found it kinda disrespectful how she kept me hanging so whateverAny update?
It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like you were unphased by it and like it never happened.