"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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when a girl comes to your apartment for the first time (SONGS)

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Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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michaelhctam said:
Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.

The only songs you want when she comes over are the ones coming from the music you produce between the sheets.

J/K, I totally agree with you, they should be ambience songs/music. The key is to have her relaxed and get comfortable. It is always good if she's never heard it before, so she will ask all about it, and you can talk about it, and display your qualities, and/or get into different conversations.

I like playing ambience type of music of known artists, but unknown songs that are on the cd's/albums.
 

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Spend the Night - Isley Brothers
Let's Make Love Tonight - Isley Brothers

On repeat.
 

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Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Freak Me - Silk

"Freak me baby..
BOOM BOOM..
Let me lick you up and down.."

Et cetera et cetera.
 

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ryannath said:
Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
(-_-)?

Yeah......GEEK POWERS UNITE!!!

*GO GO POWER RANGERS, DEE DEE DEEEE DEEE DEEE, GO GO POWER RANGERS*......

(o_0)"

Your quite cool yourself.....YEAHH YOUR COOL.
 

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I used to do that whole "just put itunes on shuffle" thing. It didn't work out too well. Some stuff just doesn't set the mood.

I've learned that whole albums are the way to go. Song by song gets annoying. So I pick bands like The Shins, Coldplay, Nick Drake or Elliott Smith.

These guys all make albums that you can just put on and play the whole thing without having to worry about a big loud drum solo while you're getting cozy.
 

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Air - Play ground Love
Brazilian Girls - Lazy Lover
DJ Marky - moments of lust
Ian Pooley
Zero 7 all 3 albums
Beatles - (depending how cool and down to earth she is)
Amy Winehouse - both albums

anything from Naked Music Recordings

Any thing from Brazil (samba/bossa nova/rock)

any Liquid Drum & Bass

any Lounge (Deep House/ House / Funk tech step / minimal funk tech step / trip hop / fusion)

acid jazz

broken beat

UK Garage

classic jazz - (worked for me)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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