"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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when a girl comes to your apartment for the first time (SONGS)

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Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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michaelhctam said:
Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.

The only songs you want when she comes over are the ones coming from the music you produce between the sheets.

J/K, I totally agree with you, they should be ambience songs/music. The key is to have her relaxed and get comfortable. It is always good if she's never heard it before, so she will ask all about it, and you can talk about it, and display your qualities, and/or get into different conversations.

I like playing ambience type of music of known artists, but unknown songs that are on the cd's/albums.
 

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Spend the Night - Isley Brothers
Let's Make Love Tonight - Isley Brothers

On repeat.
 

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Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Freak Me - Silk

"Freak me baby..
BOOM BOOM..
Let me lick you up and down.."

Et cetera et cetera.
 

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ryannath said:
Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
(-_-)?

Yeah......GEEK POWERS UNITE!!!

*GO GO POWER RANGERS, DEE DEE DEEEE DEEE DEEE, GO GO POWER RANGERS*......

(o_0)"

Your quite cool yourself.....YEAHH YOUR COOL.
 

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I used to do that whole "just put itunes on shuffle" thing. It didn't work out too well. Some stuff just doesn't set the mood.

I've learned that whole albums are the way to go. Song by song gets annoying. So I pick bands like The Shins, Coldplay, Nick Drake or Elliott Smith.

These guys all make albums that you can just put on and play the whole thing without having to worry about a big loud drum solo while you're getting cozy.
 

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Air - Play ground Love
Brazilian Girls - Lazy Lover
DJ Marky - moments of lust
Ian Pooley
Zero 7 all 3 albums
Beatles - (depending how cool and down to earth she is)
Amy Winehouse - both albums

anything from Naked Music Recordings

Any thing from Brazil (samba/bossa nova/rock)

any Liquid Drum & Bass

any Lounge (Deep House/ House / Funk tech step / minimal funk tech step / trip hop / fusion)

acid jazz

broken beat

UK Garage

classic jazz - (worked for me)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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