"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when a girl comes to your apartment for the first time (SONGS)

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Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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michaelhctam said:
Blind Tiger by Layo & Bushwacka!

Who am I? By Peace Orchestra

Beauty Never Fades by Junkie XL

Big Wednesday By Freeland

Under The Gun By Supreme Beings Of Leisure

Mind you these are all ambience music, I think these would do very nicely when you want to chill out with your girl in the apartment.

It really sets a twilight sort of a mood.
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The only songs you want when she comes over are the ones coming from the music you produce between the sheets.

J/K, I totally agree with you, they should be ambience songs/music. The key is to have her relaxed and get comfortable. It is always good if she's never heard it before, so she will ask all about it, and you can talk about it, and display your qualities, and/or get into different conversations.

I like playing ambience type of music of known artists, but unknown songs that are on the cd's/albums.
 
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Spend the Night - Isley Brothers
Let's Make Love Tonight - Isley Brothers

On repeat.
 
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Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Freak Me - Silk

"Freak me baby..
BOOM BOOM..
Let me lick you up and down.."

Et cetera et cetera.
 
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ryannath said:
Crazy Biitch by Buckcherry. You guys are such geeks. No offense. The first guy anyway.
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Yeah......GEEK POWERS UNITE!!!

*GO GO POWER RANGERS, DEE DEE DEEEE DEEE DEEE, GO GO POWER RANGERS*......

(o_0)"

Your quite cool yourself.....YEAHH YOUR COOL.
 
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I used to do that whole "just put itunes on shuffle" thing. It didn't work out too well. Some stuff just doesn't set the mood.

I've learned that whole albums are the way to go. Song by song gets annoying. So I pick bands like The Shins, Coldplay, Nick Drake or Elliott Smith.

These guys all make albums that you can just put on and play the whole thing without having to worry about a big loud drum solo while you're getting cozy.
 
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Air - Play ground Love
Brazilian Girls - Lazy Lover
DJ Marky - moments of lust
Ian Pooley
Zero 7 all 3 albums
Beatles - (depending how cool and down to earth she is)
Amy Winehouse - both albums

anything from Naked Music Recordings

Any thing from Brazil (samba/bossa nova/rock)

any Liquid Drum & Bass

any Lounge (Deep House/ House / Funk tech step / minimal funk tech step / trip hop / fusion)

acid jazz

broken beat

UK Garage

classic jazz - (worked for me)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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