Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When A Girl Asks You Back To Hers To Study...

Chemistry

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Can a girl be this blatant?

Given an invitation for tomorrow, which is all quite normal, however then she goes on to point out how Housemate A will be elsewhere, Housemate B won't be in, Housemate C is also elsewhere... and to quote her

"so we'll have the house to ourselves"


Is this the perfect silent study alternative to the library or does this girl just want some that badly!!?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JasonR

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i would turn up, forget the idea of sex, study really hard, reject any advances she makes and then leave.

if she invites you AGAIN, then its time to make a move.

if she doesnt, she didnt want it "that badly".
 

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It does sound like she was emphasising that you two would be alone together. What was her body language like when she said this?

When you're there make a move! :D
 

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Originally posted by JasonR
i would turn up, forget the idea of sex, study really hard, reject any advances she makes and then leave.

if she invites you AGAIN, then its time to make a move.

if she doesnt, she didnt want it "that badly".
I disagree. With some chicks there is only a miniscule window of opportunity. Life is too short - he must capitalise on the situation before it's too late!
 

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Did I mention we're going to dinner at a nice Italian in the city before all this, lol...

And did I mention that dinner together was her suggestion!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JasonR

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Originally posted by Eggchen
I disagree. With some chicks there is only a miniscule window of opportunity. Life is too short - he must capitalise on the situation before it's too late!
I guess i only like having sex with girls that i know really want to have sex with me.
If she couldnt hold out ONE time before moving on to the next guy, i wouldnt want her.
 

hitmanchronicles

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Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Can a girl be this blatant?

Given an invitation for tomorrow, which is all quite normal, however then she goes on to point out how Housemate A will be elsewhere, Housemate B won't be in, Housemate C is also elsewhere... and to quote her

"so we'll have the house to ourselves"


Is this the perfect silent study alternative to the library or does this girl just want some that badly!!?
Man.....

Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Did I mention we're going to dinner at a nice Italian in the city before all this, lol...

And did I mention that dinner together was her suggestion!?
with 420 posts and you still asking this question?
 

Mr. Delicious

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Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Can a girl be this blatant?

Given an invitation for tomorrow, which is all quite normal, however then she goes on to point out how Housemate A will be elsewhere, Housemate B won't be in, Housemate C is also elsewhere... and to quote her

"so we'll have the house to ourselves"


Is this the perfect silent study alternative to the library or does this girl just want some that badly!!?
If you dont hook up with her in any way at all your a dissapointment to all mankind. Definately let us know what happens
 

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This is a blatant I want you to **** me. Dont expect her to do ANY work towards sex. You have to make it happen. She's layed out the plan for you already, you just have to take whats she's handing out. Git' EM!!!

--Lan
 

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Ashley Chuckles,

Do you want this girl?

If so, DON'T LOOK A GIFT HORSE IN THE MOUTH.

Go and shag her brain loose. Then do it again.

Tally Ho!

Cheers,
Mav
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Did I mention we're going to dinner at a nice Italian in the city before all this, lol...

And did I mention that dinner together was her suggestion!?
Jesus, what, this girl has to paint the words "HAVE SEX WITH ME ASHLEY" in bright red body paint on her naked flesh in order for you to get a hint?
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Jesus, what, this girl has to paint the words "HAVE SEX WITH ME ASHLEY" in bright red body paint on her naked flesh in order for you to get a hint?
he does get the hint, but he is just posting in order to boast how he is going over to her place......
 

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Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Can a girl be this blatant?

Yes.

She wants you. However, if you suck at a subject and really NEED to study, do it instead of the chick.

Grades and schoolwork are more important.
 

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this one time, I went over to my friend's house, because we were supposed to hang out. When I got there a note on the door told me to come on in, and she came out to greet me in a towel as she'd just gotten out of the shower. suddenly, it slipped off! oops. she took her time about putting it back on.

she went into her room to get dressed, then came out in just her underwear and asked me if I would help her put her bra on. I did, then we watched a movie. we didn't have sex, but I gave her a hug bye at the end. she never spoke to me again after that.



















HA. JUST KIDDING. WHEN I GET OBVIOUS SIGNALS I DON'T ACT LIKE A FUGGIN IDIOT AND SECOND GUESS THEM. STOP BRAGGING AND START ACTING.
 
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