"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

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So I was talking to this girl I go out with periodically, and she asks me how often I "get a visit from Jill." (Jill, for those of you who dont know, is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, each with a letter, J-I-L-L. Must be a local thing...)

Jokingly, I say "who is Jill?" and "can I get her number?". I asked if it was a serious question, and she says yeah.

So I joke around a bit more, then say something like "are you doing a study or something? Im not telling you unless you tell me how many times you get a visit from ... Ed..."

Lame, but anyways, she says never... I say "well at least you arent Amish".. then says she has to go...

All of this is instant messaging. I hate instant messaging because there is no body language...

So what does this mean? Is she kidding around with me, or is she trying to bring up the subject? And I seriously dont think she never gets a visit from "Ed" or whatever his name may be... And what shouldve I said?

Input, por favor!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is your real name Jack?

I have no idea what she is talking about and frankly it's a little creepy. Maybe she meant Jail?
 

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Two words. Batsh!t loco.
 

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Jill is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, J-I-L-L. Must be a Ohio thing...

Thats why I said Ed: 2 fingers, female equivalent..
 

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river105 said:
Lame, but anyways, she says never... I say "well at least you arent Amish".. then says she has to go...
Input, por favor!
Just to make sure, you are aware she lied right? Just about every guy and gal has done it once, especially those asking other people how many times they've done it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nighthawk

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Haha, you learn something new everyday.

Yeah tell her she's a lying little wanker.
 

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Yeah I thought she was lying.

So what shouldve I said, and why is she asking this?
 

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So I learned something new today as well. If you hold up your right hand with all the fingers spread out, it looks like J I l l, or JILL. I thought it was just an assignment of one letter to each finger, leaving out the thumb, but now it makes much more sense.

In any case, BUMP. Id still like to know why she would ask such a question...
 

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Every girl says never.


Every girl does it on a regular basis.

They don't want to sound sl*tty
 

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Why not say, I actually haven't visited Jill in a while, can you take care of that?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donovan said:
Why not say, I actually haven't visited Jill in a while, can you take care of that?
Brilliant! Ill try to find the right moment.

But as to the psychology...why would she ask? Women are crazy.
 
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