"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

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So I was talking to this girl I go out with periodically, and she asks me how often I "get a visit from Jill." (Jill, for those of you who dont know, is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, each with a letter, J-I-L-L. Must be a local thing...)

Jokingly, I say "who is Jill?" and "can I get her number?". I asked if it was a serious question, and she says yeah.

So I joke around a bit more, then say something like "are you doing a study or something? Im not telling you unless you tell me how many times you get a visit from ... Ed..."

Lame, but anyways, she says never... I say "well at least you arent Amish".. then says she has to go...

All of this is instant messaging. I hate instant messaging because there is no body language...

So what does this mean? Is she kidding around with me, or is she trying to bring up the subject? And I seriously dont think she never gets a visit from "Ed" or whatever his name may be... And what shouldve I said?

Input, por favor!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is your real name Jack?

I have no idea what she is talking about and frankly it's a little creepy. Maybe she meant Jail?
 

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Two words. Batsh!t loco.
 

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Jill is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, J-I-L-L. Must be a Ohio thing...

Thats why I said Ed: 2 fingers, female equivalent..
 

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river105 said:
Lame, but anyways, she says never... I say "well at least you arent Amish".. then says she has to go...
Input, por favor!
Just to make sure, you are aware she lied right? Just about every guy and gal has done it once, especially those asking other people how many times they've done it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nighthawk

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Haha, you learn something new everyday.

Yeah tell her she's a lying little wanker.
 

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Yeah I thought she was lying.

So what shouldve I said, and why is she asking this?
 

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So I learned something new today as well. If you hold up your right hand with all the fingers spread out, it looks like J I l l, or JILL. I thought it was just an assignment of one letter to each finger, leaving out the thumb, but now it makes much more sense.

In any case, BUMP. Id still like to know why she would ask such a question...
 

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Every girl says never.


Every girl does it on a regular basis.

They don't want to sound sl*tty
 

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Why not say, I actually haven't visited Jill in a while, can you take care of that?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donovan said:
Why not say, I actually haven't visited Jill in a while, can you take care of that?
Brilliant! Ill try to find the right moment.

But as to the psychology...why would she ask? Women are crazy.
 
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