Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
I know not to give my number out first, but what do you guys tell a girl when a woman, mainly online asks for your number, but won't give you hers even when you ask?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a girl asks for your number?
- Thread starter Megaman XIV
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Harry Wilmington
Master Don Juan
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Her: Hey, let me get your number?
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to get her number but if she won't give it then give her yours and consider it a lost cause
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
PeasantPlayer
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Women
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not entirely sure what your question is. Is she asking for your number out of the blue or is she rejecting your asking of her number by offering to take yours?
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
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Thorninmyside
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"I don't answer numbers I don't recognise so how will I know it's you?"
MountainSlide
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lol, I just throw women my digits all the time and tell them to "text me". And if they don't I don't give a ****. One day I imagine I am going to have to find an app to block numbers though.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Stop thinking logical!
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now