Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
I know not to give my number out first, but what do you guys tell a girl when a woman, mainly online asks for your number, but won't give you hers even when you ask?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a girl asks for your number?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Harry Wilmington
Master Don Juan
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Her: Hey, let me get your number?
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to get her number but if she won't give it then give her yours and consider it a lost cause
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
PeasantPlayer
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Women
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not entirely sure what your question is. Is she asking for your number out of the blue or is she rejecting your asking of her number by offering to take yours?
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
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Thorninmyside
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"I don't answer numbers I don't recognise so how will I know it's you?"
MountainSlide
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lol, I just throw women my digits all the time and tell them to "text me". And if they don't I don't give a ****. One day I imagine I am going to have to find an app to block numbers though.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Stop thinking logical!
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now