Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
I know not to give my number out first, but what do you guys tell a girl when a woman, mainly online asks for your number, but won't give you hers even when you ask?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a girl asks for your number?
- Thread starter Megaman XIV
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Harry Wilmington
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Her: Hey, let me get your number?
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
Me: Sure - send me your number and I'll text it to ya
Her: Oh, um... I don't want to give out my number just yet
Me: Ah, gotcha - well, hit me up when you're ready to do so
Bottom line: if a girl is not trying to give you the number, she's already OUT. And if they ever give me the excuse of "oh, but I don't really know you yet and want to be safe," I give them the same response back so they realize how dumb they sound.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to get her number but if she won't give it then give her yours and consider it a lost cause
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
99,999/100,000 you'll never hear from a girl ever again if you give her your number without getting hers.
1/100,000 times you'll hear from her again for any one of a variety of reasons.
PeasantPlayer
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Women
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not entirely sure what your question is. Is she asking for your number out of the blue or is she rejecting your asking of her number by offering to take yours?
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
Doesn't really matter. Either way my response is the same.
Her: Oh, just give me your number and I'll text you.
Me: Nope, for all I know you could be one of those people texting me 5 times / minute. Also calling at 3 AM.
I say it jokingly of-course.
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Thorninmyside
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"I don't answer numbers I don't recognise so how will I know it's you?"
MountainSlide
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lol, I just throw women my digits all the time and tell them to "text me". And if they don't I don't give a ****. One day I imagine I am going to have to find an app to block numbers though.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Stop thinking logical!
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now
HB8: Can I have your number?
CVF: Sorry, I don't give out my number to strangers *sly smile*
Maybe if I'd get to know you better as in what's your favorite color
HB8: Pink
CVF: That's awesome. (if physical) Give me your mobile *hand out yours*
(if through web) Let's exchange numbers now