Pretty straight forward question. Had a girl ask me what I see in her. I assume this is because of her low self esteem, she's the kind of girl that goes after so-called "players" and always gets hurt by them (though she doesn't know I'm seeing 2 other girls). Anyway, it just caught me by surprise, so it got me wondering where she's coming from. Any thoughts?
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When a girl asked what you see in her; is that just her low self esteem?
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WaterTiger
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She wants to know you "see her as a real person" not just a warm hole to shove your winkie into.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
WaterTiger said:
Exactly.
In fact, if you got your act together, and are real catch, the more attractive she is, the more she will ask you these questions. A form of validation, that you don't just want her for sex.
The very reason why complimenting her on her looks right off the bat, as most chumps feel compelled to do, doesn't work as good on very attractive women, but complementing them on something they value in themselves will get you pretty much anywhere with her.
Hmm, that makes a lot of sense. It's a good thing I didn't just compliment her looks after that, instead I complimented her personality (she's not super hot but has a good personality, at least when she isn't bitter about the guys who've hurt her).
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Girl: So what do you see in me?
You: My PP
You: My PP
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scars
Master Don Juan
It's just her securing herself as a woman, she doesn't want to feel slutty. She knows that as a man you have sexual desires and want sex, but she likes to hear otherwise, whether you're talking out of your ass or not.