"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"whats your type"

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theres a girl im kinda seeing now...

last night while we were out she asked me about my dating past and i was tempted to throw out the "whats your type of guy" question..but ive heard its not a good idea to ask that

what are your thoughts
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SDBmania

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I think it would kind of bad if you asked that and the man she described wasn't you.
 

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well at least i would know and i would be able to move on and not waste any more time on her :)
 

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don't bother to ask because most of the time they don't say what they actually like

plus it looks like you are seeking approval when you ask that question
 

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Yeah, just make yourself believe you are her type.

Being someone's "type" doesn't gaurentee anything. And besides, I've liked girls that werent my type because they were cool.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The most important thing you should remember is that her type of guy currently is you because she's going out with you so as of current you as her type. Her real type might've been someone else, but it changes as she experiences more and more in life.
 

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God, I can't say this enough :

NEVER listen to what a chick says, but to what she does.
 

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its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
 

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
what race is she?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by vazeh
theres a girl im kinda seeing now...

last night while we were out she asked me about my dating past and i was tempted to throw out the "whats your type of guy" question..but ive heard its not a good idea to ask that

what are your thoughts
Never ask that question. It is never good, whether she describes you or not. As soon as you ask that question, you are put into the ljbf category. Trust me, experience (or lack thereof) is where I learned this reaction.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
God, I can't say this enough :

NEVER listen to what a chick says, but to what she does.
Excellent advice Centurion. Girls are ficle, what they say and think changes constantly. By asking this, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. She is going out with you, isn't she?

This is where the movie Hitch is right, at the beginning when Hitch says that it is"Your job not to screw it up." She has for whatever reasons agreed to go into a relationship of a higher relationship with you, so leave it at that. 'nuff said.
 

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
she's only limiting her options... that's stupid
 
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