“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"whats your type"

vazeh

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theres a girl im kinda seeing now...

last night while we were out she asked me about my dating past and i was tempted to throw out the "whats your type of guy" question..but ive heard its not a good idea to ask that

what are your thoughts
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SDBmania

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I think it would kind of bad if you asked that and the man she described wasn't you.
 

vazeh

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well at least i would know and i would be able to move on and not waste any more time on her :)
 

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don't bother to ask because most of the time they don't say what they actually like

plus it looks like you are seeking approval when you ask that question
 

SDBmania

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Yeah, just make yourself believe you are her type.

Being someone's "type" doesn't gaurentee anything. And besides, I've liked girls that werent my type because they were cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanMonk

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The most important thing you should remember is that her type of guy currently is you because she's going out with you so as of current you as her type. Her real type might've been someone else, but it changes as she experiences more and more in life.
 

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God, I can't say this enough :

NEVER listen to what a chick says, but to what she does.
 

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its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
 

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
what race is she?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by vazeh
theres a girl im kinda seeing now...

last night while we were out she asked me about my dating past and i was tempted to throw out the "whats your type of guy" question..but ive heard its not a good idea to ask that

what are your thoughts
Never ask that question. It is never good, whether she describes you or not. As soon as you ask that question, you are put into the ljbf category. Trust me, experience (or lack thereof) is where I learned this reaction.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
God, I can't say this enough :

NEVER listen to what a chick says, but to what she does.
Excellent advice Centurion. Girls are ficle, what they say and think changes constantly. By asking this, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. She is going out with you, isn't she?

This is where the movie Hitch is right, at the beginning when Hitch says that it is"Your job not to screw it up." She has for whatever reasons agreed to go into a relationship of a higher relationship with you, so leave it at that. 'nuff said.
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
its not bad if her type isnt you, actually on the 2nd date with my GF, who is currently crazy about me, she said to me she deosnt like white guys, she really likes dark skinnned latinos, or black guys.


Im not completely white, but i have light skin, so it deosnt matter if ur her type or not as long as she likes u.
she's only limiting her options... that's stupid
 
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