"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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PeasantPlayer

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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I do whatever the fvck I want to do, period. The only time I will go out of my way for a woman ever is if she does not expect it. If she ever expects something of me, then I will purposefully not meet those expectations unless I personally want to because it aligns with what I want to do. I won't cheat though, unless I know the relationship won't last because the girl is a ho or if she's being a naggy b!tch. But I will always keep my eyes on the lookout for other chicks too and don't care if she sees how my eyes wander to another girl's hot round ass. That just provides her with the incentive to either work harder to keep my attention on her, or make demands from me sooner (because she would want me to stop looking instead of possibly thinking that she could do some kind of *gasp* 'work' to fix herself) which will only speed up the process of getting to see her true colors.

I'm just me. Since I learned this stuff, I never really put on a facade and have always tried to keep it as real as possible. Instead, I just incorporated the good aspects of everything you can learn here into myself to make it authentic. I don't even know what I'm talking about, just do whatever the **** you wanna do.
 

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Art deco / swing era
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I approach, go with the flow, make intention clear fast.... if I see it doesn't flow and I have to make an effort, I skip her
 

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Social circle is the king of all kings. Due to my career aspirations I strive to know many people. This opens up plethoras of opportunities and allows my circle to expand. A never ending loop.
 

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Social circle is the king of all kings. Due to my career aspirations I strive to know many people. This opens up plethoras of opportunities and allows my circle to expand. A never ending loop.
My social circle has shrunken and my friends never had a staple of women. When they did they were usually on BS. Some good things happened, but when I look back at it there were a lot of swing and misses compared to hits. Now that I am a loner, my social circle is non existent. I'm managing now by going to dive bars and coffee shops
 

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no guys im getting laid?
 
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