PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's your personal dating style?
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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I do whatever the fvck I want to do, period. The only time I will go out of my way for a woman ever is if she does not expect it. If she ever expects something of me, then I will purposefully not meet those expectations unless I personally want to because it aligns with what I want to do. I won't cheat though, unless I know the relationship won't last because the girl is a ho or if she's being a naggy b!tch. But I will always keep my eyes on the lookout for other chicks too and don't care if she sees how my eyes wander to another girl's hot round ass. That just provides her with the incentive to either work harder to keep my attention on her, or make demands from me sooner (because she would want me to stop looking instead of possibly thinking that she could do some kind of *gasp* 'work' to fix herself) which will only speed up the process of getting to see her true colors.
I'm just me. Since I learned this stuff, I never really put on a facade and have always tried to keep it as real as possible. Instead, I just incorporated the good aspects of everything you can learn here into myself to make it authentic. I don't even know what I'm talking about, just do whatever the **** you wanna do.
I'm just me. Since I learned this stuff, I never really put on a facade and have always tried to keep it as real as possible. Instead, I just incorporated the good aspects of everything you can learn here into myself to make it authentic. I don't even know what I'm talking about, just do whatever the **** you wanna do.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Art deco / swing era
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
My style is to heavily screen. I do not want to bother trying to seduce party girls and sluts.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Social circle is the king of all kings. Due to my career aspirations I strive to know many people. This opens up plethoras of opportunities and allows my circle to expand. A never ending loop.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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My social circle has shrunken and my friends never had a staple of women. When they did they were usually on BS. Some good things happened, but when I look back at it there were a lot of swing and misses compared to hits. Now that I am a loner, my social circle is non existent. I'm managing now by going to dive bars and coffee shops