PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My social circle has shrunken and my friends never had a staple of women. When they did they were usually on BS. Some good things happened, but when I look back at it there were a lot of swing and misses compared to hits. Now that I am a loner, my social circle is non existent. I'm managing now by going to dive bars and coffee shopsSocial circle is the king of all kings. Due to my career aspirations I strive to know many people. This opens up plethoras of opportunities and allows my circle to expand. A never ending loop.