PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What's your personal dating style?
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Golden quote in the comments section..... "Men have a mating style, Women have a nesting stragedy"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I do whatever the fvck I want to do, period. The only time I will go out of my way for a woman ever is if she does not expect it. If she ever expects something of me, then I will purposefully not meet those expectations unless I personally want to because it aligns with what I want to do. I won't cheat though, unless I know the relationship won't last because the girl is a ho or if she's being a naggy b!tch. But I will always keep my eyes on the lookout for other chicks too and don't care if she sees how my eyes wander to another girl's hot round ass. That just provides her with the incentive to either work harder to keep my attention on her, or make demands from me sooner (because she would want me to stop looking instead of possibly thinking that she could do some kind of *gasp* 'work' to fix herself) which will only speed up the process of getting to see her true colors.
I'm just me. Since I learned this stuff, I never really put on a facade and have always tried to keep it as real as possible. Instead, I just incorporated the good aspects of everything you can learn here into myself to make it authentic. I don't even know what I'm talking about, just do whatever the **** you wanna do.
I'm just me. Since I learned this stuff, I never really put on a facade and have always tried to keep it as real as possible. Instead, I just incorporated the good aspects of everything you can learn here into myself to make it authentic. I don't even know what I'm talking about, just do whatever the **** you wanna do.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Art deco / swing era
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
My style is to heavily screen. I do not want to bother trying to seduce party girls and sluts.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Social circle is the king of all kings. Due to my career aspirations I strive to know many people. This opens up plethoras of opportunities and allows my circle to expand. A never ending loop.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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My social circle has shrunken and my friends never had a staple of women. When they did they were usually on BS. Some good things happened, but when I look back at it there were a lot of swing and misses compared to hits. Now that I am a loner, my social circle is non existent. I'm managing now by going to dive bars and coffee shops