Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Piers Nivens

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asking a girl for her number while she is at work?

I've talked to this girl a couple of times we get along pretty nice but the thing is I can only see her at her work place (its like a convenience mart/kinda like 7-eleven but with other things in it).

If i walk in, and she doesnt have many customers (shes at the register) should I ask her for her number? or is asking at work not a smart thing to do? I heard it can put her on the spot but what if you already talked a few times before and arent fresh strangers na mean?

after work she usually goes to a coffee shop with a female co-worker but i dont know her schedules so its hard finding her there.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Piers Nivens

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and yes, she gives a lot of high IOIs. like light kino at the register, we kept tapping each others fingernails once aftr she gave me my stuff etc
 

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Hitting on waitresses, cashiers, etc. is a excelent way to boost self confidence.

And they're a captive audience.
 

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Im not just trying to hit her on tho. We have good familiarity and she added me on fb even about a month ago and I accepted

confused about how to get her number tho. Her workplace, try to catch her outside or just ask on fb. Confused
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alvafe

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Piers Nivens said:
Im not just trying to hit her on tho. We have good familiarity and she added me on fb even about a month ago and I accepted

confused about how to get her number tho. Her workplace, try to catch her outside or just ask on fb. Confused

how you take her number? simple hand over your cellphone to her and ask your number here, or since she is a waitress ask for her number she should write it down and give you, and even so don't expect much.
 

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Alvafe said:
how you take her number? simple hand over your cellphone to her and ask your number here, or since she is a waitress ask for her number she should write it down and give you, and even so don't expect much.
Repped. I either pull out my phone and say what's your number or put your number in.
 

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As soon as you see there are no customers in there, BAM! Pull out the celly. I don't understand why you didn't ask her for her number 2 minutes into adding her on Facebook??? Why all the delay?? All you need to send is "Hey there! I don't use Facebook much, let me have your number" That's all. Once you get the digits, plan a date.
 
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