"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Piers Nivens

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asking a girl for her number while she is at work?

I've talked to this girl a couple of times we get along pretty nice but the thing is I can only see her at her work place (its like a convenience mart/kinda like 7-eleven but with other things in it).

If i walk in, and she doesnt have many customers (shes at the register) should I ask her for her number? or is asking at work not a smart thing to do? I heard it can put her on the spot but what if you already talked a few times before and arent fresh strangers na mean?

after work she usually goes to a coffee shop with a female co-worker but i dont know her schedules so its hard finding her there.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Piers Nivens

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and yes, she gives a lot of high IOIs. like light kino at the register, we kept tapping each others fingernails once aftr she gave me my stuff etc
 

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Hitting on waitresses, cashiers, etc. is a excelent way to boost self confidence.

And they're a captive audience.
 

Piers Nivens

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Im not just trying to hit her on tho. We have good familiarity and she added me on fb even about a month ago and I accepted

confused about how to get her number tho. Her workplace, try to catch her outside or just ask on fb. Confused
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alvafe

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Piers Nivens said:
Im not just trying to hit her on tho. We have good familiarity and she added me on fb even about a month ago and I accepted

confused about how to get her number tho. Her workplace, try to catch her outside or just ask on fb. Confused

how you take her number? simple hand over your cellphone to her and ask your number here, or since she is a waitress ask for her number she should write it down and give you, and even so don't expect much.
 

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Alvafe said:
how you take her number? simple hand over your cellphone to her and ask your number here, or since she is a waitress ask for her number she should write it down and give you, and even so don't expect much.
Repped. I either pull out my phone and say what's your number or put your number in.
 

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As soon as you see there are no customers in there, BAM! Pull out the celly. I don't understand why you didn't ask her for her number 2 minutes into adding her on Facebook??? Why all the delay?? All you need to send is "Hey there! I don't use Facebook much, let me have your number" That's all. Once you get the digits, plan a date.
 
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