"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What's Your Number?
- Thread starter Anti-Dump
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anti-Dump
Master Don Juan
Soon you will realize I think very highly of women.
I think they are SMART and STRONG that's why I am here!
If they were unsmart and weak this Forum would shut down! Who would need it?
AD
I don't think this forum would shut down if all women were considered weak and "unsmart".
After all, women were seen as such back in the day....why else were women not allowed to vote, needed to go from father to husband like a possession not allowed to own land, unless they were widowed (God forbid they actually deal with money) and have no knowledge of anything except what were considered female accomplishments, ie..how to stitch, play piano and generally just look pretty.
Besides, I have known of men, who rather like having a not so smart female who generally is considered weak. But, then I think its just because those men like feeling needed and "manly".
Whatever floats your boat.
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Anti-Dump
Master Don Juan
AD
[This message has been edited by Anti-Dump (edited 06-26-2000).]
Anti-Dump
Master Don Juan
I want to delete the above reply.
I tried to edit it but couldn't.
Please nobody answer it. I was trying to erase it and made a mistake.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Don the Legend
Master Don Juan
How in the hell could you talk to a girl for 15 minutes when you know nothing about her? My goal would be 2-3 minutes before I asked for the number.Originally posted by Ryan
AD, I sure get where ur coming from, but u just met a chick that u've been talking 2 4 like 15mins.She don't know jacksh!t about u; obviously she'll feel threatened if a complete stranger asks 4 her #??
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
She gives it to him
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.