"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What's your guys' realistic approach to date percentage??
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
redskinsfan92
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Nah, im kidding
glass half full
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But it's a helpful concept, since it depends on what type of woman you are looking for at the given time.
Different settings have different women. Older women just looking for good time and conversation, no strings but friendly, that can be great at the right time. I like those hook ups as long as they are still somewhat attractive, and without attitude.
Single mommies for a one time hook-up, etc.
Younger for a real rush, but a whole different game. Takes the right mood and setting for that one.
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My approach is far from perfect though.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I'd say that's pretty good these days...keep going and good luck
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Seriously though, this is skill based, not random luck. So your rate of success depends on how well you perform which can fluctuate greatly. I'll tell you again, expect nothing and go approach more. You seem like a very stat driven and overly analytical person, of you want that sweet sweet pvssy you need to let go of that and dumb yourself down. Go caveman, not Einstein. Be primal, don't be a walking Sudoku puzzle.
RangerMIke
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Yup. I forget about rejections within seconds. It has no negative bearing on my life.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've asked for advice and support on this forum hundreds if not thousands of times and thrown endless tantrums when you fail of your own accord.
Then you comletely refuse to give back and contribute when you are asked for information that could help others after you've parasited the forum for months on end. Stop being a leech. If someone asks you for help, give it. Stop being bigparasite17.
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The logic you have doesn't make sense because you are super-picky and only a very small percentage of women meet your criteria in terms of looks and caliber. You are not out to go out there in approach, because out of 100 potential targets you'll only want to approach 2 or 3 and you'll talk yourself out of it and come and post on here instead. If you did manage to talk with them with them likely is 0% would be compatible with you or your values (ie. suppose they are religious or are from a low socio-economic background, etc...) . You don't understand practice and will come with more and more excuses.