Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
so 1 in 3 women you approach will go out with you on a date?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'd say that's pretty good these days...keep going and good luckI've gotten 2 dates out of maybe 25 approaches.
My approach is far from perfect though.
Yup. I forget about rejections within seconds. It has no negative bearing on my life.Wrong mentality. A chick does not exist unless she meets you on a date. ZERO divided by any number is still ZERO. If you are trying to figure out what percentage of women you approach will go out with you.... you are spending too much time thinking about chicks that do not matter.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've asked for advice and support on this forum hundreds if not thousands of times and thrown endless tantrums when you fail of your own accord.let's say you approach 100 women in 6 months and talk to them for 10 to 40 minutes
how many dates can you get out of it??
The logic you have doesn't make sense because you are super-picky and only a very small percentage of women meet your criteria in terms of looks and caliber. You are not out to go out there in approach, because out of 100 potential targets you'll only want to approach 2 or 3 and you'll talk yourself out of it and come and post on here instead. If you did manage to talk with them with them likely is 0% would be compatible with you or your values (ie. suppose they are religious or are from a low socio-economic background, etc...) . You don't understand practice and will come with more and more excuses.let's say you approach 100 women in 6 months and talk to them for 10 to 40 minutes
how many dates can you get out of it??