You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
so 1 in 3 women you approach will go out with you on a date?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'd say that's pretty good these days...keep going and good luckI've gotten 2 dates out of maybe 25 approaches.
My approach is far from perfect though.
Yup. I forget about rejections within seconds. It has no negative bearing on my life.Wrong mentality. A chick does not exist unless she meets you on a date. ZERO divided by any number is still ZERO. If you are trying to figure out what percentage of women you approach will go out with you.... you are spending too much time thinking about chicks that do not matter.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've asked for advice and support on this forum hundreds if not thousands of times and thrown endless tantrums when you fail of your own accord.let's say you approach 100 women in 6 months and talk to them for 10 to 40 minutes
how many dates can you get out of it??
The logic you have doesn't make sense because you are super-picky and only a very small percentage of women meet your criteria in terms of looks and caliber. You are not out to go out there in approach, because out of 100 potential targets you'll only want to approach 2 or 3 and you'll talk yourself out of it and come and post on here instead. If you did manage to talk with them with them likely is 0% would be compatible with you or your values (ie. suppose they are religious or are from a low socio-economic background, etc...) . You don't understand practice and will come with more and more excuses.let's say you approach 100 women in 6 months and talk to them for 10 to 40 minutes
how many dates can you get out of it??