Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What's your Favourite Pickup Environment ?

Peterpack

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What is yours ? clubs ? bars ? Shopping malls ? Colleges ? etc

I actually do alright at clubs but by far my favourite place is supermarkets

why ?

Girls are usually on their own, no boyfriends, mother hens etc

I usually just open asking a girl for an opinion on some food items. From there i'll continue if there is some chemistry, if not, i move on and say 'thanks for the advice'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CP3WOO

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College is the place for me
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me
Ditto. Easy to find women with similar interests and they're all over the place doing all types of things.
 

foomee

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me


college works for me too, but it's the events and actually doing things at college that work for me. club events or even basketball games or something. i find i can't just hit on a girl at the library, i have trouble just starting a conversation out of nothing. so for me its easier when we're already both focused on something like an event, and then we can talk about it and then it'll lead to other discussions
 

rushing dude 123

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I like the side walk, for some reason a lot hot chicks walk on it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Duffdog

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I can't stand malls, so I guess trying to pickup girls there wouldn't work for me. My absolute favorite is concerts and special events, or large bars that have concerts in them. The Active 2030 parties are crazy, as the point of those parties is to have the largest number of drunk hot girls in their 20's and 30's as possible. I used to go to clubs a lot more, sadly not as much anymore, that venue used to be my favorite.
 

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Sadly, I wasted all of my good years in college being a nervous douchebag around women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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