"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's your Favourite Pickup Environment ?

Peterpack

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What is yours ? clubs ? bars ? Shopping malls ? Colleges ? etc

I actually do alright at clubs but by far my favourite place is supermarkets

why ?

Girls are usually on their own, no boyfriends, mother hens etc

I usually just open asking a girl for an opinion on some food items. From there i'll continue if there is some chemistry, if not, i move on and say 'thanks for the advice'
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CP3WOO

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College is the place for me
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me
Ditto. Easy to find women with similar interests and they're all over the place doing all types of things.
 

foomee

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me


college works for me too, but it's the events and actually doing things at college that work for me. club events or even basketball games or something. i find i can't just hit on a girl at the library, i have trouble just starting a conversation out of nothing. so for me its easier when we're already both focused on something like an event, and then we can talk about it and then it'll lead to other discussions
 

rushing dude 123

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I like the side walk, for some reason a lot hot chicks walk on it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Duffdog

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I can't stand malls, so I guess trying to pickup girls there wouldn't work for me. My absolute favorite is concerts and special events, or large bars that have concerts in them. The Active 2030 parties are crazy, as the point of those parties is to have the largest number of drunk hot girls in their 20's and 30's as possible. I used to go to clubs a lot more, sadly not as much anymore, that venue used to be my favorite.
 

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Sadly, I wasted all of my good years in college being a nervous douchebag around women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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