"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's your Favourite Pickup Environment ?

Peterpack

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What is yours ? clubs ? bars ? Shopping malls ? Colleges ? etc

I actually do alright at clubs but by far my favourite place is supermarkets

why ?

Girls are usually on their own, no boyfriends, mother hens etc

I usually just open asking a girl for an opinion on some food items. From there i'll continue if there is some chemistry, if not, i move on and say 'thanks for the advice'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CP3WOO

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College is the place for me
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me
Ditto. Easy to find women with similar interests and they're all over the place doing all types of things.
 

foomee

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CP3WOO said:
College is the place for me


college works for me too, but it's the events and actually doing things at college that work for me. club events or even basketball games or something. i find i can't just hit on a girl at the library, i have trouble just starting a conversation out of nothing. so for me its easier when we're already both focused on something like an event, and then we can talk about it and then it'll lead to other discussions
 

rushing dude 123

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I like the side walk, for some reason a lot hot chicks walk on it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Duffdog

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I can't stand malls, so I guess trying to pickup girls there wouldn't work for me. My absolute favorite is concerts and special events, or large bars that have concerts in them. The Active 2030 parties are crazy, as the point of those parties is to have the largest number of drunk hot girls in their 20's and 30's as possible. I used to go to clubs a lot more, sadly not as much anymore, that venue used to be my favorite.
 

#41

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Sadly, I wasted all of my good years in college being a nervous douchebag around women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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