"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's YOUR definition of success when it comes to women?

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Fuglydude

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Perhaps I should have been more specific. My point simply was that success = whatever route makes you happy. Whether you are happy being a man-whoore or someone in an LTR. It is largely irrelevant, as long as you are truly happy.

As a guy in an LTR the quality and compatibility of the girl is integral to my happiness. I've never had an actual girlfriend other than my fiance. Obviously I've had FBs, etc, but never a monogamous relationship.

In my opinion you shouldn't get into a monogamous relationship with a girl that you don't wanna make babies with/marry... The opportunity cost is simply way too great to sacrifice the fun you can have as a single high quality male.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I just wanted to be able to think to myself "I want to hit on that girl" or "I'm gonna go dance with her" or "I'll get her number now" and then go do it. And now I can go do it, no problem. So I've succeeded. I'm not too interested in banging lots of girls or whatever, but I feel like I have the ability to do so if I wanted to. There's other more important things (art, school, job, side business) I would like to excel in. I just know now that if I'm in a situation where I'm really digging that one girl at the party or whatever, I'm not afraid of going up to her.

So, yeah, it's kinda like what some other posters have said: it isn't a problem area for me anymore, so I'm happy with it. I don't have any desires beyond that.
 
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The ability to bang chicks I'm truly attracted to(the features & proportions that turn me on), the ability to replace them when they're gone & as Iceberg said, to feel great even if they all stopped calling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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