"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's YOUR definition of success when it comes to women?

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Fuglydude

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Perhaps I should have been more specific. My point simply was that success = whatever route makes you happy. Whether you are happy being a man-whoore or someone in an LTR. It is largely irrelevant, as long as you are truly happy.

As a guy in an LTR the quality and compatibility of the girl is integral to my happiness. I've never had an actual girlfriend other than my fiance. Obviously I've had FBs, etc, but never a monogamous relationship.

In my opinion you shouldn't get into a monogamous relationship with a girl that you don't wanna make babies with/marry... The opportunity cost is simply way too great to sacrifice the fun you can have as a single high quality male.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just wanted to be able to think to myself "I want to hit on that girl" or "I'm gonna go dance with her" or "I'll get her number now" and then go do it. And now I can go do it, no problem. So I've succeeded. I'm not too interested in banging lots of girls or whatever, but I feel like I have the ability to do so if I wanted to. There's other more important things (art, school, job, side business) I would like to excel in. I just know now that if I'm in a situation where I'm really digging that one girl at the party or whatever, I'm not afraid of going up to her.

So, yeah, it's kinda like what some other posters have said: it isn't a problem area for me anymore, so I'm happy with it. I don't have any desires beyond that.
 
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The ability to bang chicks I'm truly attracted to(the features & proportions that turn me on), the ability to replace them when they're gone & as Iceberg said, to feel great even if they all stopped calling.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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